Fight differently 

                        John 18:36

                        James 1:20 

                        II Corinthians 10:4

            The weapons of our warfare  

• Transformative perspective-- love & respect 

                        Matthew 22:37-40

                        I Corinthians 16:14

                        Matthew 5:44

• Speak truth in love

                        Ephesians 4:15

• Speck & plank principle 

                        Matthew 7:3-5

• Humble response >> dissolves anger

                        <don't defend the indefensible>

                        Proverbs 15:1

                        I Peter 5:5

• Spiritual judo... overcome evil with good 

                        Romans 12:14-21